reality check. 4.

the reality just keeps on coming. life (and death) doesn't care what else is going on, what day of the week it is, or how you are feeling.

somehow, my friend had the energy to make it through the memorial and an open house time afterwards. it was very beautiful, but also so difficult and draining. we intentionally planned to do nothing the following day. it was hard for me to do nothing. but it was much-needed rest, even if it was the 4th of july. we did get together that night for smores and relaxation at a friend's - whose pool, hot tub, cabana, and fire pit make for a perfect evening! she even had a little pack of celebration "fireworks" (like poppers and other silly things). it was a nice break from harsh reality to enjoy a little silly reality.

the next day i got to spend the morning in one of my favorite places - the beach. i took my niece and nephew (and my dad), and hit the sand. it was overcast and cold, but wonderful to see the ocean (and an otter!). i was reminded again that life is beautiful and wonderful, and there are so many blessings here. but as i came back to san jose and headed to my friend's to help her go through some of her mom's things, i could not escape the fact that we only have a short time to enjoy the blessings of this life and this world. reality.