it is absolutely a blessing to say that i have never had to make arrangements for someone who has died. it is a reality check to have experienced that - albeit secondhand. i sat with my friend as she (and her brother and grandmother) tried to sort through the catalogues, options, and requirements related to death, burial, and memorials. thankfully, my friend's uncle works in the industry, and was able not only to walk my friend and her family through the difficult choices, but also to help offset the costs with some family discounts. definitely a gift from God during this incredibly difficult time.
later that day we returned to the memorial park so that my friend and her family could see and say goodbye to her mother. my friend was reminded that our bodies are just containers. in reality, our spirit, our breath, our life - these are the things that make us who we are.
my boyfriend arrived in town that night, and it was wonderful to have his support and encouragement. i definitely needed it!
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